How does one succeed in life?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Hangs out with loser friends.

How will the 2026 delimitation affect India as a whole keeping the new count of 888 seats in mind (not the current 543)? I’m looking for genuine answers with facts and not rhetoric. I will only listen to answers and not reply to any of them.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Can I use the LEG PRESS to build muscle?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

I committed the unpardonable sin. God immediately punished me so that I can no longer think like before and my brain is as if paralyzed and does not work. I've tried everything (confession, repentance, etc.) nothing helps. Any advice?

What I need from you?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Are you worried that the 2024 US presidential election will result in a close race?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Do not set goals—set systems.

What do you typically do while on meth?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

That's it for today.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Why don't younger men like older women?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Im happy but there is a heavy feeling of sadness in my heart that I just can't remove. Why am I like this?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Making more friends is a goal.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Howard Schultz says he 'did a cartwheel' when Starbucks CEO Niccol coined 'back to Starbucks' strategy - CNBC

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Why do atheists always argue about the existence of suffering in the world as meaning God doesn't exist when it doesn't prove anything?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Have you ever been humiliated in front of a group of girls and enjoyed it?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Why do men think I’m easy just by looking at me?

Ask yourself:

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Does not procrastinate.

I have been married for 34 years, and I found out my wife lied, and cheated a lot back before we got married. Does she not change, or is it possible she is still a cheater?

Procrastinates a lot.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Wow! The changeover from President Biden to VP Kamala Harris as candidate could not have been more successful in just 2 days! It was as if they had been planning it. Could they have planned it? Are you excited by the positive Democratic response?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.